High-Level Thoughts

A helpful little book for figuring out when to stick out your project, and when to quit. I think the most useful piece is learning to distinguish between Dips and Cul-de-Sacs, and keeping in mind that it’s not worth being in the middle.

Summary Notes

“Sometimes we get discouraged and turn to inspirational writing, like stuff from Vince Lombardi: “Quitters never win and winners never quit.” Bad advice. Winners quit all the time. They just quit the right stuff at the right time.”

Zipf’s law: Winners win big because the marketplace loves a winner.

“People settle. They settle for less than they are capable of. Organizations settle too. For good enough instead of best in the world. If you’re not going to put in the effort to be my best possible choice, why bother?”

“The Dip is the long slow slog between starting and mastery. A long slog that’s actually a shortcut, because it gets you where you want to go faster than any other path.”

“Successful people don’t just ride out the Dip. They don’t just buckle down and survive it. No, they lean into the Dip. They push harder, changing the rules as they go.”

“Are you over investing (really significantly over investing) time and money so that you have a much greater change of dominating a market? And if you don’t have enough time and money, do you have the guts to pick a different, smaller market to conquer?”

“The next time you’re tempted to vilify a particularly obnoxious customer or agency or search engine, realize that this failed interaction is the best thing that’s happened to you all day long. Without it, you’d be easily replaceable. The Dip is your new best friend.”

“Before you enter a new market, consider what would happen if you managed to get through the Dip and win in the market you’re already in.”

“Seven reasons you might fail to become the best in the world:

  1. You run out of time and quit
  2. You run out of money and quit
  3. You get scared and quit
  4. You’re not serious about it and quit
  5. You lose interest or enthusiasm or settle for being mediocre and quit
  6. You focus on the short term instead of the long term and quit when the short term gets too hard
  7. You pick the wrong thing to be the best in the world at because you don’t have the talent”

“Sales Dip: The Dip hits when you need to upgrade to a professional sales force and scale it up.”

“That’s the goal of any competitor: to create a Dip so long and so deep that the nascent competition can’t catch up.”

“The next time you catch yourself being average when you feel like quitting, realize you only have two good choices: Quit or be exceptional. Average is for losers.”

“Do you know an entrepreneur-wannabe who is on his sixth or twelfth new project? He jumps from one to another, and every time he hits an obstacle, he switches to a new, easier, better opportunity. And while he’s a seeker, he’s never going to get anywhere.”

“Hence the Dip of market acceptance. The marketers who get rewarded are the ones who don’t quit. They hunker down through the Dip and galvanize and insulate and perfect their product while others keep looking for yet another quick hit.” [48]

“The opposite of quitting is rededication. The opposite of quitting is an invigorated new strategy designed to break the problem apart.” [51]

“Short term pain has more impact on most people than long-term benefits do, which is why it’s so important for you to amplify the long-term benefits of not quitting. You need to remind yourself of life at the other end of the Dip because it’s easier to overcome the pain of yet another unsuccessful cold call if the reality of a successful sales career is more concrete.” [53]

“If you’re not going to get to #1, you might as well quit now.” [57]

“Strategic quitting is a conscious decision you make based on the choices that are available to you. If you realize you’re at a dead end compared with what you could be investing in, quitting is not only a reasonable choice, it’s a smart one. Failing, on the other hand, means that your dream is over. Failing happens when you give up, when there are no other options, or when you quit so often that you’ve used up all your time and resources. It’s easy to wring your hands about becoming a failure. Quitting smart, though, is a great way to avoid failing.” [63]

Three Questions to Ask Before Quitting: [66]

  1. Am I panicking? Quitting when you’re panicked is dangerous and expensive. The best quitters decide in advance when to quit. Wait until you’re done panicking to decide.
  2. Who am I trying to influence? If you have a well defined person you’re trying to influence and they’re not listening, it may be time to quit. But when it’s a whole market, there are plenty of other people you could try to influence. Influencing a market is a hill you have to climb.
  3. What sort of measurable progress am I making? If you’re trying to succeed in a job or a relationship or at a task, you’re either moving forward, falling behind, or standing still. There are only three choices.

“Here’s an assignment for you: Write it down. Write down under what circumstances you’re willing to quit. And when. And then stick with it.”

Questions: [75]

  • Is this a Dip, a Cliff, or a Cup-de-Sac?
  • If it’s a Cul-de-Sac, how can I change it into a Dip?
  • Is my persistence going to pay off in the long run?
  • Am I engaged with just one person (or organization), or do my actions in this situation spill over into the entire marketplace?
  • When should I quit? I need to decide now, not when I’m in the middle of it, and not when part of me is begging to quit.
  • If I quit this task, will it increase my ability to get through the Dip on something more important?
  • If I’m going to quit anyway, is there something dramatic I can do instead that might change the game?
  • Should I really be calling on IBM? Should I really be trying to get on Oprah?
  • What chance does this project have to be the best in the world?
  • Who decides what best is?
  • Can we make the world smaller?
  • Is doing nothing better than planning on quitting and then doing something great?
  • Are you avoiding the remarkable as a way of quitting without quitting?

“If it scares you, it might be a good thing to try.” [76]

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